Unspoken Secrets to Building a Strong, Authentic Personality

Here comes a few ways to develop a strong personality that nobody really talks about.

Become interesting. A boring personality just means you are bored. Bring intrigue into your life. Do something new every day.

Be yourself. People can sense when you’re being fake. Life isn’t high school. Learn to be comfortable in your own skin.

Don’t gossip. Quality people don’t gossip. They don’t need to put other people down to feel good about themselves.

Don’t complain. Don’t brawl about how this sucks and that isn’t fair. This won’t get you anywhere in life and quality people won’t like to be around you.

Ask questions. Questions that begins with why work best. Let people discover themselves when talking to you.

Be encouraging. Genuinely help and encourage people to do better. You will feel good doing it and people will like you more.

Stand up. Have the guts to stand up for yourself when someone isn’t treating you right. It’s a hard skill to learn, but worth it.

Check insecurities. It’s uncomfortable to be around people who beat themselves up. Learn to get over your insecurities. Change them or accept them. Embrace them. Love them.

Be a good listener. Don’t think of what to say, rather just listen. You will intuitively know what to say if you listen carefully.

For more insights, check out my podcast over at JoeDrummerBoy.com.